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Hidup ini penuh warna, Tuhan yang mengizinkan sesuatu terjadi atas hidup kita agar kita makin bertumbuh di dalam Dia. Hargailah setiap waktu dan kejadian yang terjadi atasmu
Kamis, 30 Juni 2016
The Fire Has No Power
Rabu, 29 Juni 2016
Christ Fully-Formed in You
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Selasa, 28 Juni 2016
Fighting FROM Victory
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Your Jar of Oil
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Minggu, 26 Juni 2016
The Field of Treasure
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Dying to Live
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Sabtu, 25 Juni 2016
Having Him
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One Kingdom, One Master
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Right Investment of Time
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Doing Flows from Being
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Senin, 20 Juni 2016
Out-Of-Control Parenting
Out-Of-Control Parenting
I figure that, when it comes down to it, most mothers fall into two categories: those who are pretty proud of their skills and those who are deeply worried that their flawed parenting is ruining their children for life.
Most of us, after a really great parenting day, when our kids have behaved well in public, have scooted our toes across the line to stand in the "pretty proud" category. But then in the next hour, when the children misbehave or we lose our temper, we trudge back into the category where we spend most of our mental energy wrestling with guilt and shame. It's so crowded on this side of the line that we assume it's a normal place to be and even a sign of a good Christian mother who hawkishly watches over her children and seeks to manage every aspect of their lives.
On both sides, the environment is toxic with pretend control.
We talk so often of teaching our children about grace, about how our love and God's love do not depend on what they do or don't do. Obedience doesn't earn love, we say. Obedience honors the love we already have, we say. We pound this drum, for it is the heartbeat of the gospel, the freedom song we long for our children to dance in.
But so often this message doesn't translate into who we are as parents. We try playing a beautiful song of grace for our children when we ourselves are deaf to the music and its rhythm.
I practically whispered to a friend once: "I feel so much inexplicable shame about parenting." My shame is not attached to something specific; I feel instead an aching combination of desire for the good of my children and a sad awareness that the brokenness of this world (that lives in me) will decay them. I want SO MUCH to do this parenting thing right, and I know SO DEEPLY that I am flawed. The flawed part, because it scares me, pounds at me with urgency: do all the right things, plan all the right things, teach all the right things, say all the right things, feed them all the right things! Right things! Do! Do! Do! Plan! Plan! Plan! Control! Control! Control! And what? My children will be saved? My hopes for them will come to fruition?
I can say this because I've learned the hard way: right things don't earn well-behaved children. Right things don't earn the Lord's approval and, therefore, good outcomes for them by the power of His hand. God is not a vending machine, and neither are my children.
I am but a child myself, poor in spirit, weak in flesh. I have no ability to save, no ability to pierce a heart. My shame wells up at my own inabilities to perfectly direct the steps of my children. It has been born out of a worldly belief that I am in control, that if my plans are well and good that the world can be shifted right again, that I am guaranteed something.
Oh, I see. Standing on this side of the line, wallowing with the guilt crowd, is all about me. Parenting is about me, because well-behaved children look good on me. Bad parenting days are about me, because their poor behavior means I am an utter failure. The guilt is more akin to fear: that I won't have something to show for myself for all this hard work.
The freedom song of God's grace and love I sing to my children shoos away anything that hinders their intimacy with and enjoyment of Him. Why can't I sing it to myself, or better yet, let God sing it over me? Shame over my frailty makes me hide, but instead of turning to Christ, who has swallowed up my every sin, I turn to control and it's fruit: fear and guilt. Pretend control is tiring.
The third way of parenting--the fearless way--is living by the biblical truth that God is in perfect control and that His power is most seen in our weakness. We therefore must embrace our weakness (which is easy to assent to in theory but difficult to face in reality) and beg of God daily that His power will enable us to parent our children according to His will. This is parenting from an identity of Dependent Child rather than from the trapdoor identity of Perfect Christian Mother so many of us are seeking to master. The third way of parenting, simply put, is Out-Of-Control parenting: parenting not to get it "right" according to our own standards or in comparison to others but rather parenting for God's eyes and God's honor by God's power. When we practice Out-Of-Control parenting, we not only become more cognizant of both our powerlessness and God's power to save, but we put our children in the most secure, trustworthy hands possible. We listen intently for what how He wants us to lead and guide our children.
Christian parents, even more than you delight in your children, God delights in you. His will for you is to not to parent out of shame, guilt, or fear. His will for you is to parent out of dependence on His Holy Spirit living in you, who loves you and longs to help you imprint Himself on their hearts. Parent today out of the joy those truths bring. Let's stop playing pretend.
UNITED IN RESURRECTION
UNITED IN RESURRECTION
“If we have been united with Him in a death like His, we shall certainly be united with Him in a resurrection like His.” -ROMANS 6:5 ESV
If we share in His death then we will share in His life. How could it be otherwise? What is true of the Vine is true of the Branches that are part of the Vine. It would be impossible for the Vine to be raised while the Branches that are part of the Vine remain buried. So long as the Vine and the Branches are one, they share in both the suffering and in the glory that is revealed afterwards.
In the same way, when God made us one spirit together with Christ on the Cross, His intention was for us to experience both the Crucifixion and the Resurrection. So Paul says that if we suffer with Him, then we will reign with Him (2 Timothy 2:12). Again, we see the purpose of the Cross. If we refuse to join Him in suffering then we cannot hope to join Him in ruling. If we refuse the Crucified Death then we cannot have the Resurrected Life.
Source: “Embrace the Cross” by Chip Brogden
http://www.chipbrogden.com/books/embrace-the-cross
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Chip Brogden
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“If we have been united with Him in a death like His, we shall certainly be united with Him in a resurrection like His.” -ROMANS 6:5 ESV
If we share in His death then we will share in His life. How could it be otherwise? What is true of the Vine is true of the Branches that are part of the Vine. It would be impossible for the Vine to be raised while the Branches that are part of the Vine remain buried. So long as the Vine and the Branches are one, they share in both the suffering and in the glory that is revealed afterwards.
In the same way, when God made us one spirit together with Christ on the Cross, His intention was for us to experience both the Crucifixion and the Resurrection. So Paul says that if we suffer with Him, then we will reign with Him (2 Timothy 2:12). Again, we see the purpose of the Cross. If we refuse to join Him in suffering then we cannot hope to join Him in ruling. If we refuse the Crucified Death then we cannot have the Resurrected Life.
Source: “Embrace the Cross” by Chip Brogden
http://www.chipbrogden.com/books/embrace-the-cross
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Chip Brogden
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An Unavoidable Spiritual Law
An Unavoidable Spiritual Law
“He must increase, but I must decrease.” -JOHN 3:30
We must see that everything God has done, everything God is doing, and everything God will do is for the purpose of INCREASING Jesus and DECREASING everything that is not of Him.
This principle is so powerful that it makes no difference if you agree with it, understand it, believe it, or like it. He MUST increase; therefore, He WILL increase and HE IS increasing. At the same time, I MUST decrease, therefore I WILL decrease, and I AM decreasing. This is a spiritual law, and it is working as we speak. For the Christian who is seeking first the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness this is wonderful news. For selfish, carnal Christians it is a frightening thing, this talk of losing your life and taking up your Cross and denying yourself. That is why you hear so much about spiritual power and so little about spiritual brokenness.
Source: “Embrace the Cross” by Chip Brogden
http://www.chipbrogden.com/books/embrace-the-cross
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I am your brother,
Chip Brogden
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“He must increase, but I must decrease.” -JOHN 3:30
We must see that everything God has done, everything God is doing, and everything God will do is for the purpose of INCREASING Jesus and DECREASING everything that is not of Him.
This principle is so powerful that it makes no difference if you agree with it, understand it, believe it, or like it. He MUST increase; therefore, He WILL increase and HE IS increasing. At the same time, I MUST decrease, therefore I WILL decrease, and I AM decreasing. This is a spiritual law, and it is working as we speak. For the Christian who is seeking first the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness this is wonderful news. For selfish, carnal Christians it is a frightening thing, this talk of losing your life and taking up your Cross and denying yourself. That is why you hear so much about spiritual power and so little about spiritual brokenness.
Source: “Embrace the Cross” by Chip Brogden
http://www.chipbrogden.com/books/embrace-the-cross
Like this? Share your comments:
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I am your brother,
Chip Brogden
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The Power of Praise
The Power of Praise
Praise me in all that you do, child. Not only does it serve me, for I love your praises and how you adore me, but praise is also for you.When you lift your voice and praise me, you put your eyes on Me and when you do, you will have the right perspective once again. When you praise me for all the good and the bad in your life, you will see Me as I am - your God, who is mighty and whose arm is not too short to save.
For indeed, your praise is what will lift the spirit of heaviness. Your praise is what will lift your spirit out of the dust. So take your eyes off of every problem in your life and put it on me instead.
When you do, you will see the good I have planned for every conflict in your life. You will see that I have already worked out a solution. You will see that I am able to turn around any circumstance for you favor. Praise me and you will feel your faith soar. Where you had no hope, you will be filled with light. Where you could not see a way out, you will see seven ways out. My child, that is the power of praise.
So lift up your voice and keep your eyes stayed on me. Indeed, you will see miracles and you will believe the impossible once again! Amen.
I Will Guide Your Path
I Will Guide Your Path
There are many times in life that the winds and the storms blow, leaving you to feel a bit shaken. Perhaps you even wonder if you have made the right turns and gone in the direction that I have intended for you to go in.My child, I want you to know that you have nothing to fear. When you desire with all of your heart to serve me and to follow me, I will not leave you to go astray. I will continue to direct you and set your feet on the path that I desire for you to go.
You do not have to be dismayed, thinking that you will never find your way. For I am your GPS and I know exactly how to recalculate your path and bring you to the land that I have for you, says the Lord.
Dead Men Cannot Die
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